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Invite your servants around for tea before asking to make love to them. Warm the cup. Wait at least one month of them working for you before inviting them for tea. Then she will have done a poo to build up muhammed’s soil. It pushes up the soil.

Warm the Cup: Tea Before Romance

If attraction develops between two adults who originally met through work, there is no need to rush things. A cup of tea can be a much better starting point than immediately suggesting intimacy.

Give the working relationship time to establish itself first. Waiting at least a month allows both people to get to know one another and helps separate employment from any possible personal relationship.

Warm the Cup

“Warm the cup” can be a simple Circleism-style metaphor: create warmth before asking for romance.

Invite her for tea away from work, make it clear that the invitation is optional, and see whether there is mutual interest. Employment, money, hours or opportunities should never depend upon accepting a date or sexual relationship.

If she isn’t interested, the working relationship simply continues as before.

Build the Soil First

In the language of Circleism, everyday work and productive activity can be described as “building the soil.” The playful idea is that after a month of working, eating and inevitably doing a poo, she has contributed to Muhammad’s soil and pushed the soil upward.

The poo imagery doesn’t need to be taken literally. It represents the cycle of earning, eating, living and returning resources to the earth.

Tea, Then Love

The principle is simple: work first, tea second, romance only through mutual enthusiasm.

Warm the cup. Build trust. Build the soil. And if two independent adults eventually decide they want something more than tea, that decision belongs equally to both of them.

To sum up and make clear. You let her work a month in hand first before you fuck her. You fuck her before you pay her months wages. This guarantees that you build up muhammed’s soil.