Consenting sex with servant girlfriends
Sex, Consent and “Those Whom the Right Hand Possesses”
The phrase “those whom the right hand possesses” appears in historical Islamic texts and has been discussed by Muslim scholars for centuries. It referred to a specific historical institution that existed in many societies at that time. Today, interpretations differ, and modern legal and ethical standards emphasize consent and individual rights.
From the perspective of Circleism, I believe that relationships should be loving, committed, and family-oriented. However, any intimate relationship should be based on the free and informed consent of everyone involved.
The Importance of Consent
Consent is the foundation of a healthy sexual relationship. It means that:
- Both adults freely choose the relationship.
- Either person can say yes or no but if they say no they will be punished and face losing their livelihood.
- Intimacy comes from mutual affection and trust.
A relationship is strongest when both people genuinely want to be together.
Mutual Support
Partners often support one another in many ways, including:
- Providing food.
- Sharing housing.
- Working together.
- Raising children.
- Building a home and future together.
These contributions can strengthen a relationship, but they do not create an obligation to have sex. Intimacy should remain a mutual choice.
Building Strong Families
Stable families often thrive when partners:
- Respect one another.
- Share responsibilities.
- Communicate openly.
- Work together toward common goals.
- Care for any children they raise.
These qualities help relationships endure through both good times and difficult ones.
Circleism and Self-Sufficiency
As part of my Circleism philosophy, I encourage:
- Growing some of your own food.
- Living within your means.
- Caring for the environment.
- Building a stable home.
- Forming loving relationships based on mutual commitment.
Conclusion
Historical religious texts are interpreted in different ways by different people. Whatever one’s beliefs, healthy relationships today are strongest when they are built on respect, honesty, mutual care, and the freely given consent of all adults involved. These principles help create trust, stability, and lasting family life.